Why You Should Skip the Big Family Formals

Trying to figure out who to add to your photo list for family photos can be quite the challenge, especially when you're dealing with a massive extended family like mine. The dilemma of capturing every member in a family photo without sacrificing precious time with your partner is all too familiar for many couples.

When you're facing a guest list that seems to stretch on endlessly with aunts, uncles, cousins, and more, the idea of traditional family formals can quickly become overwhelming. It's not just about snapping a quick picture; it's about wrangling everyone together, organizing the chaos, and hoping that everyone cooperates long enough to capture a decent shot! And let's face it, that's a tall order for even the most patient photographer. Not only that, but the time it took to do all of this could’ve been used for many other special events during the day!

So, what's the solution?

Well, why not prioritize the moments that truly matter? Instead of attempting the impossible task of rounding up every distant relative for a marathon photo session, focus on what's most meaningful to you: your intimate family. Gather your parents, grandparents, and siblings for those classic formal portraits that will truly stand the test of time.

But what about the rest of the family? This is where the photo dash comes in —a brilliant solution that promises to satisfy even the most camera-happy aunt or uncle while keeping your sanity intact. Picture this: instead of corralling everyone onto the lawn for a lengthy photo shoot, you and your partner embark on a whirlwind tour of the reception tables, accompanied by a nimble photographer (that's me!).

With lightning speed (or as fast as my little legs can handle), we run from table to table, capturing candid snapshots with each group of guests. It's a fun, fast-paced adventure that not only ensures everyone gets their moment in front of the camera but also adds an element of spontaneity and excitement to your wedding day.

And the best part? You're in control.

No more forced smiles or awkward poses—just genuine moments of joy and celebration with the people who matter most. Aunt Sally gets her cherished photos, you get to spend quality time with your partner, and everyone walks away with memories they'll treasure for years to come.

So, if you're dreading the thought of endless family formals on your wedding day, fear not. Embrace the photo dash, and let's make some magic together!